I couldn't stop at one cookie—I'd eat the entire bag of gummy bears and still want more, more, more! That temporary yum with the candy, then the crash—feeling awful, exhausted, ashamed. "If only I could control myself" was pretty much a constant companion running in the background of my mind, and this is the last time I’ll binge I'd tell myself.
The message broadcasted is always "portion contr...
The diet industry has convinced us that suffering equals success.
Remember "Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels"? They want us obsessing over every single ounce gained or lost, chasing unrealistic expectations about our bodies, our willpower, our habits. (Because perfection is totally a thing that exists in real life, right?)
I spent years measuring myself against their standards—and guess ...
"If you're not losing weight, you're doing it wrong."
I believed this myth for decades. Every plateau felt like proof I was failing. Every week without a loss meant I needed to try harder, restrict more, do better. (Spoiler: that never worked. But I kept trying anyway.)
Here's why this myth is so damaging—and why I finally stopped believing it.
Weight loss is about as linear as my ability to f...
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